Yes you can!!!!! Things change and that includes your life. You can take control of your life, redesign it, and watch yourself move forward and grow. You just need to want to do it. Redesigning your life is perfect for people who feel like they are in a rut, need or want to start a new job, or maybe you are ready for a relationship. You don’t even have to have a special reason, only the want to.
The first thing to do is rid your home of all the things you no longer want or need. You can donate them, have a magical yard sale or repurpose them. While you are going through the clutter and the clothes you haven’t worn for 12 years, take some time to sit down and make a list of what you would like your life to look like. Be as specific as possible…God is very accommodating. For example: you write down that you want to learn how to dance. Now you may have country line dancing in your mind, but you will probably land in ballroom dancing or vice versa. So write down specifics…God has a great sense of humor. Let’s say you deal with anger issues so you list that you would like to be rid of this challenge. You will need a plan and of course prayer and people to support you in this. As part of your plan you could list “find someone to talk to about this,” that is where a Life Coach can be very useful. As a Life Coach I would suggest that you start keeping a journal of the times when you get angry. Ask yourself what caused that reaction in you, how it made you feel, and how you handled it. Then you touch base with your life coach and really look at the root cause of the anger. A life coach my suggest that you check out yoga as a way to learn to relax and be still…it really does help folks who deal with anger. Or they might suggest you take up boxing. Seriously. It works.
The excess stuff is now leaving your life, you are making a list and then choosing something you feel you want to work on, achieve, accomplish. You have hired a life coach and you work together once a week.
Guess what, you have put a huge dent into Starting Over. You can do it. You can change careers, your attitude, your size, your relationship status, your love for painting or playing the piano.
I encourage you to spend some quality time alone and see if there are things you would like to have differently in your life or things you want to accomplish. Go for it…..it is amazing.